Mary L. Stirling Mary Lila Stirling {Kuda} 58, of Thorofare, NJ passed away on December 8, 2013 at Inspira Medical Center of Woodbury, NJ. Mary was born in Camden, NJ. Mary spent the majority of her younger years enjoying her craft as a beautician and dedicated the latter part of her life as a devoted caregiver to young and old. The example of her spirit and love will forever affect everyone she touched in her lifetime. Mary loved and was loved by so many, and gave her heart to anyone that needed it. In the end, she was the only person in this world that her heart ever failed. Beloved wife of Richard E. Stirling Sr. and daughter of Mary E. Moore, She is survived by her brothers Charles Kuda, Michael Kuda, and William Moore, children Michael and Richard Basmajian and Tamara, Richard, and Stephanie Stirling. As well as a host of grandchildren, nieces, nephews and extended family members. Relatives and friends are invited to attend her services Thursday, December 12, 2013. The memorial will be at 10:00 AM and service at 11:00am at Ellis-Stiefel Funeral Home 301 Highland Avenue, Westville, NJ 08093. Family and friends are also invited for some light food and drink at her son's house after the celebration of Mary's life at 26 Winding Way, Gibbsboro, NJ 08026. Please share your memories and condolences on this web page so we can all enjoy any good times that were missed. Any donations that you wish to make please feel free to contribute in her name to the American Heart Association.